It's amazing to me it's like the men of today prefer to be submissive sexually thus to have someone on top of them though the laziness factor is also at play. That desire to dominate is not there anymore unless the are trying some over the top shit they just watched on mainstream European porn smacking ass or inability to simple leave the camera alone in a good spot and let it film lights on instead choosing to stop every 3minutes to look at it and stop themselves from having an orgasm something that women do. If I'm fucking I am fucking her to cum of course I make sure she does as well but I'm playing no games .